Jason did not like cats - all his family did, but Jason did not!
They had their own cat, Mr. Freddo, but there was another one living under our house - he was a big tom cat, and he loved meowing and making himself known throughout the night. He was crashing and bashing under there as if he were making his own cubby.
Jason was determined to take Old Tom away somewhere and give him to someone, and that is exactly what he did - BUT THE CAT CAME BACK
My own Dad used to sing that song; it sort of went like this: "But the cat came back - the very next day the cat came back, they thought he was a goner, but the cat came back, it couldn't stay away!"
Jason's six kids thought it was great - here was their cat, Mr. Freddo, and then there was this big black Tom living under their house,
Jason wouldn't give up; he tried again. He set a trap under the house, and he caught Old Tom again, and this time he took him far away to a stable yard that kept horses, and the owner said he could stay there, BUT THE CAT CAME BACK - it may not have been the next day, but in a couple of weeks THE CAT CAME BACK!
They were all astounded as to why Old Tom kept coming back to their place - they all just had to accept that Old Tom was now living there, unfed and virtually unloved, but there he was - sleeping all day and out and about at night, making lots of noise and carousing around. What memories they must have had
Poor Jason, a shift-working man, was trying to sleep while Old Tom made himself at home. He had to come to terms with the fact that no matter what happened, Old Tom was a law to himself and was determined to be in charge of their home. Jason gave in to Old Tom and let him "rule the roost," and he became king of 'under the house'.
In the Bible, in Luke 14:28-33, in the Christian Standard Bible, Jesus was in front of a huge crowd, and he told this parable: "For which of you, wanting to build a tower, doesn't first sit down and calculate the cost to see if he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, after he has laid the foundation and can't finish it, all the onlookers will begin to ridicule him, saying, 'This man started to build and wasn't able to finish.'
Or what king, going to war against another king, will not first sit down and decide if he is able with ten thousand to oppose the one who comes against him with twenty thousand? If not, while the other is still far off, he sends a delegation and asks for terms of peace. In the same way, therefore, every one of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple."
Jesus was absolutely and determinedly positive that whoever claims and hangs on to their possessions and holds them close and so, so dear to their hearts cannot be his followers, or as he said in the Bible, his disciples. What did he mean? Our possessions are what we have and hold dear to us.
What Jesus was saying here is that we have to make God the leader of our lives and make him THE top priority in not just some things but in everything we do and everything we say and everywhere we go and actually everything we own.
That's exactly what Jesus meant when he said we must renounce all our possessions. We must make Him the first and last in everything we do. He is our leader and our captain, and we follow him completely and let Him rule us come what may.
Old Tom was still there as all the kids grew older, and Jason ended up selling the house. Not because of Old Tom, but because it was time for the family to grow and move on. Sometimes it is easier to let things ride and work out for themselves rather than take the whole situation on ourselves.
Like in the story that Jesus told about the Tower and how the guy involved got down and worked out the cost, and if he had enough to complete it. A wise thing to do, and way before you actually commence the building. Otherwise, like in the parable, the other guy started to build and then couldn't finish it at all, and then was open to ridicule.
Like Old Tom, the very fact that Jason spent so much time, effort, and money on the cat was certainly not wise, and he knew that no matter what, he would come back anyway. Jason made a wise decision.
It was a great lesson to me after I read that chapter in the bible about Jesus in the story that he told, as mentioned above, it was certainly about counting the cost of being a disciple or follower of Jesus, not spectators of Jesus, OR what we are having to undertake in this crazy world of ours.
If we follow him, he certainly needs to take precedence over everything else, over all commitments in our lives, even our family commitments. If we follow Jesus, we need to move forward with God and stay focused on him.
It certainly does not mean that we cease loving our family and giving up on life in general, but what it does mean is getting our priorities in correct order with God at the helm and asking him every day to guide our thoughts and actions, and where and what he would want us to do.
Working on our priorities and putting God first, even though so many things keep vying for our attention, we definitely need to focus on God first, and then our lives and how we cope with life in general.
Making God our very foundation is truly amazing and fills us with a true perspective of life as we go through each day. Every decision we make should revolve around God and his values, and absolutely his guidance as we start each day.
Life is absolutely full of challenges of all sorts, from family traumas to car breakdowns to horrible fatalities, everything that life throws at us. We need to rely on God for his strength to see us through. I know personally how God has changed me and how I need to put him first in my life. Everything else surprisingly just seems to fall into place. Of course, traumas happen often daily, but with God on our side, we can get through.
God knows every area of my life and yours, and so let's make it our goal in life to have a deep and very meaningful relationship with him. If we serve God with everything we have, then our lives will change regardless of what it throws at us. We will have peace even though life can be so cruel so many times.
This certainly doesn't mean that we live our lives never messing up or making mistakes, maybe upsetting someone, but please never be discouraged. Confess your mistakes to God and then pick up and keep going with God at the helm.
God as our Captain over everything gives us a real sense of peace and love, Patience with everything, and tolerance that we never thought we'd have.
Hope you are truly blessed this week, and hope to see you next time.













