Neighbours can be fun, can't they!
Here were two neighbours getting on fine. In one house were Greg and Carol and their daughter, Monica, who had just got her licence to drive and really loved driving and living at home with Mum and Dad. Then there were the neighbours right next door: Mark and Heather with their son Nigel and daughters Meghan and Isobel.All was fine. Every afternoon Greg, Carol and Monica came out, sat on their front verandah and fed the kookaburras and the magpies- fine to watch - and the birds loved the carport, which sheltered them and the seeds if it was raining or during a good old Aussie heatwave.
Mark and Heather, on the other hand, were completely different. Both worked hard to pay the mortgage, and had three latchkey kids who were always coming home from school with no mum or dad there to let them in. All had their own keys and were completely indifferent to each other.
Jesus had a lot of friends and also worked hard. He had no latchkey kids, although all of us were in his care and were his children. Even though he was only 30 years old when he commenced his full-on ministry to the world, he knew in his heart of hearts that he was indeed our Heavenly Father. All of us can come to him at any time and lean on him in good times and bad times.
Unfortunately, things changed for the worse, and he knew that would happen, but prior to that happening, he gave us all the most amazing messages of love and commitment and what we had to do to follow in his footsteps. You can read about all of the amazing things he did in the Bible in the New Testament. Of course, everything he did was predicted in the Old Testament, which again proved what was going to happen to him and how he paid for our sins.
Mark and Heather had a dog, a huge dog, a sort of an Alaskan husky. Every time they went to work and the kids were at school, Hugo the dog barked a loud and threatening bark constantly all day until someone came home. He seemed like a vicious type of dog, but fortunately he didn't get to roam the streets.Every day, Greg was yelling at Hugo, the dog, to "Shut up," and every day it seemed to get worse and worse. The dog barked more when Greg made the stand-up statement to Mark to "please keep that hound quiet during the day." Hmmm, maybe he had not done it quietly, maybe in a threatening sort of way? Anyway, things between the two families started to grow worse.
The three children of Mark and Heather, Nigel, Meghan and Isobel, took it upon themselves to 'get back' at Greg for 'yelling and abusing' their dear and lovely pet Hugo. So the next time Hugo did his business in the backyard, Meghan picked it up in a plastic bag and stuffed it in Greg and Carol's letterbox. All went well until the postman arrived, and you can imagine the result.
Greg and Carol were furious and scraped it out of the letterbox and threw it on their neighbour's front door. After that, things deteriorated pretty badly. Mark and Heather decided to put up a big high fence between the two properties. They went to the council and applied, and shock after shock, it turned out that their boundaries over the years weren't in the right place.
It seemed that Mark and Heather's place was bigger, and part of their property was on Greg and Carol's place, which meant that if they put up a fence, then they had to, as Greg said, 'intrude' onto his property, and he had to pull down his fence, which was actually on Mark and Heather's property now! Oh Dear!
Jesus worked hard, did many miracles, and told many amazing stories, bringing people to the realisation that they had to come to a point in their lives where they put God way ahead of everything else. Just like today! When we come to the same realisation, we should ask Jesus into our lives to lead us and be our Captain, guiding our thoughts and lives.
Things intruded into Jesus' life while he was here with us, just like today. Unfortunately, we often put others way behind us, and they become less important than we do. How often do we see it? Jesus's ministry here told us to put others ahead of us. That certainly doesn't mean we become 'doormats' for others, but what it does mean is that we react to problems in our lives so differently and more respectfully, not losing our temper and making sure we 'get back' at others.
Things didn't work out for Greg and Carol; they had to pull down their fence. A total shock for them. They had to get rid of their garden, and then the carport ended up being right on the fence line. Mark and Heather thought it was great, although they couldn't do anything with the land they had acquired. A good metre, or 3 feet, in width. It was right next to their driveway, and the weeds and grass grew. It was a total mess and looked ghastly.They left it just like it was. Greg and Carol had other ideas for their own place! They pulled down their carport and redesigned their whole front yard. They planted bamboo right up to their new boundary, and the plants grew enormously and continually dropped so much over onto the neighbours' yard. They continually threw things over at the dog next door and dropped dirty and horrible things into their letterbox. Mark went next door and let Greg have it with a right hook to the jaw.
He was arrested and fined an extraordinary amount of dollars, put on probation, and told never to have any communication with the neighbours. Greg had to go to hospital about his slightly fractured jaw. He lost two teeth and got Mark fined to pay for his amazing dentistry. It all took years, and the bamboo continued to grow higher and higher.
Did it work out for either of them? Not at all. The neighbours living across the road from them said they were both miserable and continually thought of horrible things to do to each other. Poisoning plants, parking halfway across driveways, and so it goes on to this very day. The barking dog has since passed away, but the anguish and anger still exist.
That's really sad and definitely full of anger and anguish. None of the family members in each home have absolutely nothing to do with their neighbours, but strange things still happen. It started as a really horrible day, and it hasn't improved at all; nothing has ever been resolved, and it just keeps getting worse.
The question is asked: WHY? Is it all about us personally and no one else? So many times, just like the neighbours as mentioned above, the whole world seems to revolve around 'me', and 'me' being number one will never ever tolerate being put down in any way at all.
We should be so aware and considerate of others and never ever put ourselves way ahead of anyone else. Jesus never put himself above others. In Romans 15:5 it says, "May God who gives patience and encouragement, help you love in complete harmony with each other, as it is fitting for followers of Christ Jesus." In other words, if you are following Christ, live like him. Show love and consideration to all. Jesus certainly didn't live to please himself and do exactly when and where and what he wanted to do.
He gave his life for us. WHY? To pay for our sinful selves. He wasn't just meek and mild. He stood up and was very forthright in what he said and how he acted. He did pay the awful price through his execution just to pay for all of our sins.
On 5th August 2013, I wrote a blog: A BEAUTIFUL TERRIBLE DAY. Check it out if you would like to. It was all about Jesus and what he went through all those years ago. He was so willing to put down his life to pay for our sins. He definitely didn't have the 'me' attitude
The false accusations against Jesus were totally intolerable and disgusting; the rigged trial; the flesh-gouging flogging; The vicious punches to His face; His beard pulled out by the handful; the irate crowds mocking, spitting, and throwing rocks; the vicious outrage of the Sanhedrin; the excruciating two-kilometre journey to Golgotha carrying the huge weight of the wooden cross; the nails in His hands and feet; the crown of thorns; the crushing weight of hanging on the cross.
And worst of all, the sheer horror of being abandoned by his Father God.
Jesus: impaled on that monstrous tree; man's very worst creation of human suffering - bleeding and in abject agony.
He went through all of this, and why? Just to pay for our sins, and all we have to do is accept his great sacrifice and ask him into our lives. He was by no means a coward or just an accepting sort of person. He told us all what we can expect if we don't hand our lives over to him. He paid for our sins on that day, and all we have to do is accept his great love for us.
So do you accept his love for you? Or do you just completely ignore what he did and just don't want anything to do with the whole thing at all? If you ask him to lead you and become first place in your life, then you can be so assured of eternal life when the time eventually comes for you.
You and I certainly have the option of either asking God to lead our lives or completely ignoring him. It is entirely up to us all. So where are you?
God's blessings to you this week. Hope to see you next time.















